How Parents Can Support Their Soccer Players This Year 

Posted on 
August 2, 2023

As the soccer season kicks off this month, here at SST we want to help you make it the best season yet for your soccer player(s). It may sound obvious, but parents truly play a crucial role in the development and enjoyment of their young athletes. So your question may be, How can I be the best soccer parent for my player?”

Soccer provides an excellent platform for children to learn essential life skills, build character, and stay physically active. As a parent, you can make a significant impact on your child’s soccer journey by providing the right support and encouragement. Here are the top 10 tips to help you support your young soccer players:

1. Be Positive and Supportive

One of the most important things you can do as a parent is to remain positive and supportive. This can be harder than it sounds, especially when you feel disappointed for your child, or disappointed in their actions or attitude. Encourage your child regardless of their performance on the field. Focus on the effort they put in and their willingness to improve. Avoid criticizing or putting excessive pressure on them, as this can negatively affect their confidence and enjoyment of the sport.

2. Emphasize Fun and Enjoyment

 Soccer should be about having fun and enjoying the game. Remind your child it’s not just about winning or losing, but about learning, making friends, and staying active. Even if you think they’ve heard it a million times, they will believe it if you believe it. Encourage them to play with a smile on their face and celebrate the joy of being part of a team.

3. Attend Matches and Practices

Your presence at matches and practices can have a significant impact on your child’s motivation and enthusiasm for the sport. Be there to cheer them on and show you value their commitment to soccer. However, the hardest part isn’t even getting to the event — it’s staying off your phone. Even if you have to check work emails, try to make sure there are at least 20-30 minutes where you are solely focused on your child. They do look up. They do watch to see if you’re watching. That eye contact matters. Show them they matter. Of course, avoid being an overbearing presence and allow them space to enjoy the game.

4. Encourage Healthy Habits

Proper nutrition and hydration are crucial for young soccer players. Encourage healthy eating habits and provide nutritious snacks to fuel their performance. Also, stress the importance of staying hydrated during practices and matches, especially on hot days. (Need ideas? Feel free to check out our recipes for easy soccer snacks.)

5. Reinforce Good Sportsmanship

Teach your child the value of good sportsmanship. Emphasize the importance of respecting opponents, referees, coaches, and teammates. Show them how to handle both victories and losses with grace and humility.

6. Respect the Coach’s Role

The coach plays a vital role in your child’s soccer development. Trust their expertise and respect their decisions. Avoid interfering with the coach’s strategies or playing time decisions, as it may cause confusion for your child and disrupt team dynamics.

7. Communicate Openly

Maintain open and honest communication with your child about their soccer experience. Encourage them to share their feelings and experiences on the field. If they encounter challenges, provide a listening ear and offer constructive advice.

8. Provide a Balanced Schedule

While soccer is an exciting activity, it’s essential to strike a balance between sports and other commitments. Make sure your child has enough time for schoolwork, family, friends, and rest. A balanced schedule will prevent burnout and promote overall well-being.

9. Focus on Long-Term Development

Soccer is a progressive sport, and improvement takes time. Encourage your child to focus on long-term development rather than short-term results. Celebrate small achievements and milestones, acknowledging their dedication and growth.

10. Lead by Example

As a parent, you are a role model for your child. Demonstrate good sportsmanship, positivity, and a healthy lifestyle in your daily actions. By leading by example, you instill the values you want your child to embrace both on and off the soccer field.

In conclusion, parents play a critical role in shaping their young soccer players’ experience. By being positive, supportive, and fostering a love for the game, you can help your child derive immense enjoyment and growth from their soccer journey. Remember, it’s not just about soccer; it’s about building character, learning life skills, and creating lasting memories.


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